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Sally French Wessely's avatar

No matter what you do, writing, making collages, or making flower arrangements, you weave together beauty, thoughtful reflection, and a great deal of interesting features. Thank you for this end of the year reflection.

I wonder why we think we wouldn’t be carrying parts of one year into the next. Is that a trait of magical thinking? If so, I certainly must do a lot of it. But, don’t you just wish during those times of family togetherness during the holidays when we are laughing and playing our games, or dancing such as your family did, we could box all that good up while throwing out the lingering concerns and illnesses with the turkey remains?

I love the last thoughts with which you left us. They are beautiful and hopeful and thoughts to remember. But maybe your final greeting when you say peace be with you is the best because if we can have peace through it all, what more can we ask for? Peace with YOU my dear friend.

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Sue Fulmore's avatar

Thank you for sharing your thoughts here Sally. In some ways we do keep those good memories - we have photographic evidence and when we are truly in those moments they become implanted in our memories which we always carry with us. I found myself taking more photos and videos because there is no guarantee that these times will come again and in a way I was storing them up as treasure to revisit later.

Yes as you say, grateful that peace is available through it all.

❤️❤️much love to you

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Sally French Wessely's avatar

Those photos become touchstones.

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Jenny Powell's avatar

I'm following your lead Sue to look for and gaze in beauty as I learn to be present and listen to my true longings ❤️

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Sue Fulmore's avatar

May you find yourself with armloads of beauty and goodness all throughout 2025. 🙏

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Jen Baden Howard's avatar

Oh Sue, beautiful words and a message that very much resonates - "we carry with us all our experiences and previous versions of ourselves across the threshold of a brand-new year. This doesn’t mean we can’t grow and change but it doesn’t happen with the dropping of the ball in Times Square." So true. Sending MUCH love and stepping over the threshold (belatedly!) linking arms with you dear friend! ❤️🙏

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Sue Fulmore's avatar

I was thinking of you as I wrote that and that quote by Madeline l’Engle you have used before about being all the ages we have already been - something like that! 😉

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Jen Baden Howard's avatar

Oh WOW 🥹 (well, no wonder it jumped out at me, then!). And yes!! You know it’s one of my favourites, that Madeline l’Engle quote—'I am still every age that I have been,’—ahhhhhghgh!! And wisdom I think that can be applied to so many areas, the mothers we’ve been, daughters we’ve been, friends … and so on.

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Briana Almengor's avatar

It is a remarkable thing to see how little change happens from moment to moment, day to day, but stretch that time out, and wow—so much change!

I’m grateful God lets us experience the change slowly (most of the time anyway).

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Sue Fulmore's avatar

Yes there is a grace to that slow change isn’t there? Although I also don’t always appreciate the slowness 😝

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Eileen's avatar

Have a Blessed 2025

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Sue Fulmore's avatar

Thank you - and same to you!

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Linda Stoll's avatar

Sue, this quote reminds us that there's no magic wands or quick fixes --> 'a “long obedience in the same direction.'

I love that God is very much present and active every step of the way. I'm so grateful.

Looking forward to doing 2025 with you.

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Sue Fulmore's avatar

An ever-present and active God - yes! 🙌

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Janine Dilger's avatar

I always appreciate your honesty, Sue. I think more people resonate with this low grade anxiety than with the shiny sparkly resolutions. (At least I do) you don’t sugar coat the real and hard, but your words are like balm. Soothing, gentle and kind. May you be met by Peace and Presence as you keep showing up. I’m grateful for you.

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Sue Fulmore's avatar

😭 thank you for this Janine - I do sometimes feel Eeyore-ish but I’m so glad some comfort and hope also comes through.

Peace and presence to you also my dear friend.

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Rhonalee Corazza's avatar

Such wise words.

May we all live 2025 with greater grace- for others and ourselves.

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Sue Fulmore's avatar

Yes, and amen to greater grace! Thanks for reading and responding. Wishing you a beauty-filled year.

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Lisa Crowder's avatar

I too ended up with blues and browns in my collage. 🤎🩵🌱

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Sue Fulmore's avatar

It was not an intentional choice - was it for you? Bout now that it’s there, I like to think of it as the soil for the new things that are growing within and around.

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Mary Liz's avatar

Thank you very much for sharing your thoughts so bravely and generously, Sue. Journaling and making pages is a wonderful way to ponder a subject or set of subjects that may be bothering us or making us joyful, or both! May the coming year open doors for goodness of all types and reasons to smile and be encouraged.

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Sue Fulmore's avatar

Thank you so much and may it be so for you as well. Blessings in 2025 🥰

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